MARS AND VENUS IN THE BEDROOM, THE ROLE OF SEX IN RELATIONSHIPS.

"He wants sex.  She wants romance. " 

"Sometimes it seems as if our partners are from different planets, as if he's from Mars and she's from Venus."

So I read that book as the title says , by the author John Gray. Whatever am going to write today are not my exact words but part of the book that I thought was worth sharing .

Because , honestly I think the message delivered was very  powerful and we all need to understand the basic difference between men and women when it comes to sex .

For those who are not book readers , maybe this is likely to capture your attention and for the book readers this will make you go over the book again . All in all the lessons should be captured and applied in our lives to make our relationships much stronger. Here we go:

•   In the bedroom, it is obvious that men and women are different, but we may not realize just how different we are.  It is only through understanding and accepting our obvious and less obvious differences that we can achieve true intimacy and great sex.   
• We're all aware that sex tends to be more important to men while romance is more important to women, but we generally don't understand why. Without a deeper understanding of this fundamental difference, women commonly underestimate the importance of sex for men and many times judge them as superficial for wanting only one thing.  
• It is through sex that a man's heart opens, allowing him to experience both his loving feelings and his hunger for love as well. 
• Sex allows a man to feel his needs for love, while receiving love helps a woman to feel her hunger for sex.  
• When he wants sex and she is not readily in the mood, he easily misunderstands and feels rejected.  He does not instinctively realize that a woman generally needs to feel loved and romanced before she can feel her hunger for sex. 
• Just as a woman needs good communication with her partner to feel loved and loving, a man needs sex.  Certainly, a man can feel loved in other ways, but the most powerful way a woman's love can touch his soul and open his heart is through great sex.  

IMPORTANT TIP: Ideally, for sex to be great there must be loving and supportive communication in the relationship. 

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