To all who lost their loved ones , It will get better with time.

 

Losing a loved one is something that never crosses anybody's mind, It's something you would never want to think about.

Because honestly just thinking about it feels so bad, you feel the pain right through your chest. Until it happens, and the pain, the grief can't be explained.

Everybody has a coping mechanism when it comes to the loss of a loved one, could be your parents, siblings, your children, or your spouse. Some cry, some drink, some eat, you could name it all.

Loss changes us, you're never going to be the same again, that's what happened to me too. I let myself grieve for several years, I would cry my heart out, would isolate myself for a few days till I would feel better again.

I lost somebody I loved dearly 6 years ago( exactly 6 years ). I admit the way it felt back then and now is quite different. I still remember the details of how it happened; I can hold myself well now; it could be that or maybe I've learnt to live with it.

With time you learn to mask the pain. It's not easy, it will never be easy but you will learn to live with it.

But I promise you, it will get better.