We are all different
God created us all differently, in terms of so many things our body shapes, color, and the like. I think that explains why we all have different preferences and that's not a bad thing at all or else we would've been created exactly the same.
When it comes to dating and relationships, it's a common thing to hear a person having a picture of a life partner. I do too, in my mind I have always had a picture of my ideal man .; in terms of everything, their body type, voice, attitude. We all love what we love and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
We all love what we love and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
Dating in your 20s
At your 20s ( mid-20s, late 20s ) is the time most of us really want to settle and look for partners that we would love to spend the rest of our lives with.
It is is that time where we are sensitive to the most minor red flags because you have to be sensitive; it's one thing being with somebody for fun and it is another being with somebody and considering to spend your life with them forever.
We become so picky and selective and our tolerance becomes so low, nobody wants to waste time at this particular age, I don't want to waste mine, do you?
The Truth about Morden Dating: Emotional Fatigue
So here comes the challenge, the process could be so repetitive. You meet a person, you two talk ...it's always so perfect at the beginning, and then you get to know the person and see the unpleasant sides of them. In your mind, you tell yourself, Nah this isn't him/her, and then you let go; you let him/her go.
It could be very disappointing when your expectations aren't met when you feel the need to lower your standards just to be with a person. When the red flags are too much that you need to overthink.
Strange enough all that can happen in a span of days. Then you meet another person and you repeat the same exact process. Then there reaches a time when you can't take that anymore; when that whole process becomes so draining. When you really don't want to go through that process again, just the thought of it gives you anxiety.
You, my love, you're experiencing emotional fatigue. Have you ever experienced that?
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Take the lessons with you
But you don't need to give up on love when it's the right time you will find that special person. You can take a break if you feel too drained and that's okay.
Let go of a person if it doesn't feel right but take the lessons with you. Through that journey you will get to know what you like and what you don't like from people, you will get to know the parts of yourself that you didn't know. Take that as a challenge, as a self-discovery journey.
What to remember :
1. Each dating experience is an opportunity for growth.
2.Dating fatigue is a normal part of the dating journey. It's important to learn to cope with it rather than letting it defeat you
3.It takes time to meet the one, and disappointments do happen.
Best of Luck,
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