So here is the thing,it all comes down to your maturity level,there are two types of ages ,physical or mental age.And you could be 20 or something ,but still immature in your actions (high physical age but low mental age),so no wonder you are still titled as a boy/girl.
Maybe you have come across statements like "I don't date boys","I can't date him,he still a boy","He/she is still immature" etc.
So what makes you a man and not a boy,or a woman and not just a girl...So here are the facts.
And not every girl becomes a woman.....
Are you dating a boy or a man?
So if you are a guy evaluate yourself here,and if you are a girl evaluate that dude here.
- A boy only tells you that he loves you,a man tells you that he loves you and backs it up with actions.
- A boy makes you feel like you’re not good enough. A man makes you want to be a better person because you have so much genuine respect for him.
- A boy is possessive. A man is protective.
- A boy makes you feel like you need to downplay your accomplishments so as not to embarrass him. A man is not threatened by your success, but proud of it, and inspired by it.
- A boy is concerned with his own pleasure. A man cannot enjoy himself unless he knows you are too.
- A boy underestimates you. A man is not afraid to challenge you, because he knows what you’re capable of.
- A boy will be interested in your life for as long as he can get something out of it. A man will be interested in your life because he cares about you and wants to understand you more deeply as a person.
- A boy is threatened by the idea of feminism, convinced that being feminist classifies you as angry, aggressive, and man-hating. A man understands that feminism is simply the belief that men and women are equal.
- A boy thinks he must provide for you. A man knows that a relationship means the two of you are providing equally for each other.
- A boy bottles everything up, and lashes out because of anger or other pent-up emotions. A man admits when he needs you and when he needs to talk, even if it makes him uncomfortable.
- A boy is always thinking of whether or not he could do better. A man knows when he has something good right in front of him and never takes it for granted.
- A boy makes excuses. A man admits when he’s screwed up, and always does everything he can to fix it.
- A boy is either needy or impossible to get hold of. A man always makes time for you, while also making sure he has a life outside your relationship.
- A boy is only interested in beauty. A man appreciates your physical beauty, but is most attracted to your personality.
- A boy thinks he already knows everything. A man walks around with the mindset that there is always something new to learn from everyone he encounters.
- A boy focuses on what he wants now, now, now. A man lives in the now but is always planning for the future.
- A boy will spend time with the friends of yours – if he likes them. A man will spend time with your friends regardless of his feelings towards them, because if they’re important to you, they’re important to him.
- A boy makes rash decisions based on his immediate desires. A man understands the concept of being rational and having priorities.
- A boy needs you because of his fragile self-esteem. A man needs you because he believes his life is better with you in it.
- A boy is concerned with how you look to his friends. A man does not care about what other people think, as long as you’re happy together.
- A boy is ready to do anything to get want he wants. A man is ready to love without hesitation.
So where do you belong ?
Are you dating a girl or a woman?
So here is your section girls,are you a woman yet or still a girl?
- A girl does not want to meet your family or friends, she wants you all to herself.A woman wants to know your family and friends. She knows without them, you would not be where you are, and who you are today.
- A girl is overly worried about her nails been done all the time, her eyelashes looking in a certain style, and being beautiful for her peers. Her physical beauty is important to her.A woman is not overly worried about her nails being done. Instead, she is worried about being beautiful for her man, even if that means wearing no makeup. She focuses on her internal beauty and character building, because she knows real beauty comes from within.
- A girl only cares about her career and her vision for life. She comes before the relationship, and does not make her future plans with you in mind.A woman cares about your career and your vision of life as well as her own. She knows you also have a plan, and works together with you to achieve the goals you both have.
- A girl loves the financial cushion you can provide. She also expects something back whenever she gives.A woman wants to build a financial cushion with you. She believes that two heads will always be better than one. When she gives, she does not expect anything back.
- A girl believes she knows everything.A woman is open to learning something new, and knows there is always room for improvement.
- A girl is scared to tell you her deepest secrets.A woman will share her deepest secrets with you, even if it means losing you. She trusts you, and shares everything with you. She knows honesty is always the best policy.
- A girl has to be entertained.A woman is someone you can have fun with, relax, do activities, or do nothing together and still enjoy each other’s company.
- A girl tries to change who you are and compares you to her ex.A woman accepts you for who you are and will not compare you to her ex. She knows you are the best and that you cannot change another person no matter how hard you try.
- A girl thrives on constant attention from you.A woman mirrors your affection and thrives on providing you with the love, support, and respect you need.
- A girl is overly concerned about how long you will be around, and how she can keep you.A woman is not too concerned about keeping you because she knows you want to have a future with her. She is mature enough to know you can never force someone to stay and that you each have to choose each other every day, again and again.
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