People Come And People Go

And here is one thing I learn't as I was growing up, and with time this fact is getting much more clearer. And that is people come and go; it is a fact that we cannot deny no matter how hard we try to. Some people leave peacefully, well it just happens, and some months or years later they come back and we easily hook up and communicate, and some leave, leaving us with grief in our hearts, and some leave us with regrets, and some make us feel at fault that we caused them to leave and well some leave and we never get to understand why they crossed our life path at the first place. Well, that's how life is, always mysterious.

But here is the thing, learn to appreciate the people who come to your life, make sure you grasp a lesson from them, and maybe...just in case they were meant to leave, then give them something to remember, imprint their hearts, so that once in a while you will cross their mind as they do something. Treat people good and make them feel special, but during the process be you, nobody has the right to make you feel less of yourself.

And just because somebody did not treat you right, it does not mean you should do the same. Treat people as you want them to treat you...kill em with kindness..they say...because you never know what your tomorrow will bring at the table.

Am no saint, it's not like I always kill em with kindness...but am smart enough to know that when it's time to let go of a person then just do it, no matter how much it hurts, if that person was to supposed to stay then fate will take responsibility...Because sometimes clinging to some people, could lead to hurting some people, either you, the other person, or other innocent people; because with the time, you will just be fine. Maybe someday you will understand the purpose of that person in your life.

Not everybody is meant to stay, and some people are meant to stay forever. Be wise with the choices you make when it comes to people. Because all choices have consequences, and someday you will have to take responsibility for the decisions you made.

The good news is that every encounter with a new person makes us a bit more mature than the day before. So be ready and learn to accept some life facts.